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jenet: If victory is certain then even a coward can fight, But the real brave is the one who still dares to fight when his defeat is certain.
Alohagagirl: We are moving 400 miles away... to a different state. I grew up in that state, but not in that area... Still, I have peace
Sherry: Gayle, the "David and Denise" you mention as "touched by adoption" go to my church!!
robin and mom:
AmandaMagick: GO RED!! come see what I mean. Also wishing you a happy Fall!
robin and mom: hi gayle . we hope you are having a funaroo fall
Elizabeth: Hi, I just wanted to let you know that you have a beautiful journal! I hope you can stop by my place sometime! TC
Sherry: Thanks so much for the continuing encouraging words. Life is pretty scrambled right now and I know your prayers are part of the reason my brain isn't scrambled, too. :0)
Janie: Hiya Gayle, justwanted to stop in andsay hello! Hope all is well with you!
Jenn: Stopping by to send ya some love!
Maria: Hi Gayle! Good to hear from you again, my friend. I'm afraid I don't make the rounds anymore, either. Just not enough time in the day... Glad to pop in and say "hello" though!!! :)
Jenn: Hey there! I have really enjoyed my visit here! I love it! Wanted to take a minute and wish you a wonderful day! In friendship.....
Melody: have not been by in awhile. Had some time and thought I'd do some tagging to my friends...It was nice to catch up at your journal. Hope you are doing well!
Janie: Mornin Gayla, what cute pictures, and happy belated birthday to your sister and Happy birthday to you hubby today!! Have a great w/e!
Princess: Hello, I am back and have missed all my friends.. Hope you come and see me at my new journal and catch up on whats been happening in my life.. Have a Super Weekend.. Bless and be blessed!
Maria: Hi Gayle! Long time, no see!
beth: hey just blog hoping nice journal. very sweet. feel free to stop by my journal netime
RAINBOW: Just saying "HI"...and stop on over when you have a minute.
Janie: Mornin Gayle! Sorry I have not been around, but we just moved and trying to get settled! Just wanted to stop in and say hello!
robin and mom: hi gayle . we are happy you are keeping busy and having fun at school. stay coolish
Jill: Those were Josh's boots and hat from the HS spring play. Noah was having fun with them, but they scared me near the stairs, so we took 'em away!
jewelry care: A newspaper in Iran is now holding a cartoon contest called Iran Cartoons. Iran made Holocaust denial government policy when Iran foreign minister Manouchehr Mottaki said in December that remarks made by the Iran president that the Nazi mass murder of Jews during World War II was a myth. The Israel News Agency is asking every SEO advertising marketing professional to create Web pages and optimize the keywords: "Iran Holocaust Cartoon Contest" in order to prevent the Iran newspapers, history of e
Heather: Just thought I would stop and say hi. Was looking for other adoptive parents websites as my husband and I are currently adopting from South Korea. Have a great weekend!
robaloo and mom: happy birthday to you happy birthday to chubby happy birthday to you . have a ton of birthday fun you chubby pal
Janie: Mornin Gayle! Just out and about today and thought I would stop in and say hello! Have a great Sunday!
Jenn: I have really enjoyed my visit. Just stopping by to say hello! Wishing you many, many blessings~
Janie: Hiya Gayle, just out cruising the community this morning and thought I would stop in and say hello! Hope your New Year started off with a bang! Happy Sunday my friend!
Amandamagick: HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!!!
Princess : I'm back.. Happy New years my friend!
Janie: Wishing you have a wonderful and safe New Year!!!
robaloo and mom: hi gayle . we hope you have the most happy holidays . thank you for the birthday wish . i have been having a ton of fun today
SO 8IS CHUBBIE HAVING HIS BIG BIRTHDAY THIS YEAR: nd are we invited again...nanza
Grandpa Chuck: Gayle, It is ear muff weather here in Michigan! Hope you are having nothing but Sunshine by you!
Amandamagick: Frosty hello!!!
Grandpa Chuck: Gayle, Stopped by for a visit and couldn't leave without saying, "Hello". Hope this TAG finds you and yours doing well!
Maria: Good morning! Long time, no visit! I pray you are well!
GirlyGurl: hello there, just browsin through your journal here.
robin hood and mom: hi gayle . we hope you are all feeling better very soon . we hate colds.
robin hood and mom: hi gayle and family . we just came to wish you a very merry weekend
robin hood and mom: hi gayle . we are so glad you all like bananas . you know mom has been bananas for a very long time . we hope michael feels better very very soonish
MInTheGap: Hope you have a great week!
Janie: Happy Halloween Gayle!! Have a great week gf!
Grandpa Chuck: Gayle, Wishing you and yours a great weekend!
AlohaGAGirl: I'm so sorry ... I just couldn't resist (bad girl, bad girl)
ALohaGAGirl: I'm glad, too, that Michael didn't swallow his first "lost" tooth. Would have been a real bummer putting THAT under his pillow for the tooth fairy....
Anne: Hope you have a nice weekend and a scary halloween
AlohaGAGirl: Hunter has his own blog now! Stop by and say, "HI!" I have hotlinked my name to his new journal...
robin hood: hi gayle . we hope your week goes extra merry riffic
Amandamagick: Hi, are you doing the Bloggers blog trick or treating? if not stop by and join in the fun!!
Denise: Hi, Gayle! Long time-no see! If you stop by my journal you would see pics of my "baby".
Nathalie: Just out and about and came upon your journal. Very Nice!
RAINBOW: Hello! I hear the Sultan calling.
robin hood and mom: hey gayle your gerbils are very good picture takers
Diana Marie: Hi!...you have a nice blog here...you can also check on my site http://musicart.piczo.comHave a nice Day!
Janie: Hiya Gayle! Just stopped in to say hello! Havea great w/e!
Annonymous: You've been spooked!!! Send this to three other brave journals to share fun.
hannah: hey there....hope you are well and are getting some sleep....
CINDERELLA: My rainbow is gone!
DreamState: Good Sunday to you from DreamState Blog!
Donna Who?: I LOVE YOU!!!
Mysti: Hey. Haven't been round for a while. :) Hope you're having a brilliant time.
Kay~Iggy: Hey! Nice blog. Come visit. :)
robin hood and mom: hi gayle . you should come and see what we found outside this morning
Sherry: Big Smiles to you, Gayle! I know what you mean about Michael taking things so seriously... Hunter does that, too, on occasion. So sweet (and sometimes irritating...). Stop by and wish Hunter a happy birthday if you get a chance...
hannah: hey there...you sound absolutely exhausted...i am sending a virtual coffee and donut down the modem cord as we speak...ahem would you excuse me...i seem to have malfunctioned something...
Aidan: Hi hon. I hope that this finds you doing well. Have a great weekend!
Ryan: Hey nice journal, I like to theme of your journal! Just stopping by and if you have time check out my site and have a great day!!!
robin hood an mom: hi gayle . we are waiting for my teacher to come this morning. wish us luck
eric: Dear friend, come to meet more friends and leave a blessing for
Kris S: Just stopping by to wish you a safe and peaceful weekend!
Grandpa Chuck: Gayle, Stopping by to say, and wish you and yours a great weekend!
Laura: I am praying for the victims of Hurricane Katrina. You can help the survivors by donating to the American Red Cross at http://www.redcross.org
eric: hi, poppin to say hello & hope u’re doing well !
Fred: Hi Gayle. All profits from sales of our CD are going directly to the red cross. CD is only $9.99 and $5.99 of that goes to hurricane relief. Hope you'll help out. Normally I wouldn't "spam" like this but anything that can help those poor people suffering in the south is worth it.
RAINBOW: I am so very happy for you! When you have a minute, please stop by and see the cute little guy.
Pam: (((HUGS))) on this milestone day for your family! What a beautiful day of long-awaited answer to prayer. Hope that your first day of homeschool was a blessed one! Enjoy the teaching and learning days to follow to their very fullest!
Angel: I always enjoy reading your entries soooo much, Gayle! I don't get here often (summertime is always so busy for me!), but when I do, I'm never disappointed.
sparkle: In the neighbourhood and stopping of with a warm hello
amandamagick: I Love your picture! you look so happy! have a great weekend!!!!!!!!!!
Bookiie Gyal Wonder: Beautiful childdd! I was just browsing journals, and yours popped up! I hope to see you around
Corina: Hi Gayle! I'm not sure what circumstance brought you to my site ---- but I'm glad you visited! Praying God's richest blessings will be yours! [Grin]
Court: What a beautiful child and congrats on your anniversary!! May you have many more.
Maria: Hi Gale! Thanks for leaving the sweet comments at my place. Samuel is healing nicely! Ya know, it would be so great to have another homeschooling family live just down the street!! You're welcome to stop by any time!! Hope you're having a great weekend!!
Eric: hi, poppin to say hello ! With God's blessing
Jap: have a great week
crimson_shine: Hi! I'm completely confused! I'm not "Jill"... but you're more than welcome to call me anything you like! ! Hope you're having a wonderful weekend!
Jill: Just stoppin' by with those and that you wanted -
Ms. Logic: college doesn't leave much time to the simple pleasures of updating my journal or reading yours, friend. Happy belated anniversary- I hope it was amazing. s and s to you and yours, always.
RAINBOW: Good morning! Here's a cup of coffee . Stop by for the next episode of SURVIVOR.
Robin Hood: hands up maid gayle
F.P.I.C.F.: I would like to invite you to pray with us at our journal. Please feel free to post your prayers, and we can all pray together.
robaloo and mom: hi gayle. we hope your weekend is extra snoopily
Fred: Hi Gayle!
Carol: Hi Gayle, I stopped by to check up on ya. Thanks for stopping by my site.
Jules: hi there! you have a neat journal. I like your song choices.
Donna Who?: GAYLE! It's Hoolio's Birthday party at the BLOGGERS BLOG TODAY! (Saturday). Click my name and go Partay!
AlohaGAGirl: Praying for Eddie and Lura, David's friend's family and yours, too, as you also go through these times with your friends

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Friday, September 15th 2006

11:36 PM

Broken glass

  • Mood: mixed... deep down I know I'm OK, but I still feel nervous
  • Weather: everytime I emerged into the outdoors today, it began sprinkling... otherwise cloudy
  • Gas Prices for My Car: in PA, it was $2.65 per gallon... here, it's $2.88 per gallon
  • Michael's Happenings: We did not get to go to the zoo today after all. Perhaps another time.

Last Monday, though David did not physically feel well, he went to work anyway.  Likewise for Tuesday and Wednesday.  Wednesday night, he called and said he felt so sick, he didn't know if he could make it home OK.  I was really worried, and suggested that I phone someone and ask for a ride down to David's office so I could drive him and all of our family back home.  He declined, so I was very relieved when he finally did make it home.  Thursday, yesterday, he called in sick.  Michael and I were planning to take a piece of furniture to PA to put into the storage unit we use up there.  (Thursday's schoolwork would be made up this weekend.)

Since David was not going into work, we didn't have to leave so early for the day.  But then, we wouldn't have to worry about getting back to the area in time to pick him up from work when his work day was over.  We left home around 2 PM and had an uneventful drive up to PA.  After we did the storage unit run with my mother riding along (she has the key to the unit, and knows where the place is at... I can never quite remember), we stopped at Walmart for something I would be needing for today.  We had planned to make our own field trip to the zoo since no one in the homeschool co-op was agreeable to doing it as a group effort.  So, it would be our family; just the 3 of us.  I found what I needed in the Walmart up in PA (our local store here had run out of what I needed) so I bought it and went to the car.  Before I could start the engine, David phoned me.  He sounded so panicked that I feared he was having a heart attack.

Someone had smashed in Michael's bedroom window.

We live on the ground floor, and though David had at first thought it must have been a rock or brick thrown through, we later learned that someone kicked it in with their foot.  A nearby neighbor had been outside at the time, and was obviously not noticed by the guilty party.  They came to tell us that someone had just done something to our apartment, but David was already aware when he heard the loud crash.  The police were called, they came and took a statement.  They also talked to the neighbor witness.  Our complex's maintenance supervisor drove back to work, or more accurately was driven back to work, because she had taken some medicine that could cause drowsiness and she lives over an hour away.  When David was talking to more than one person at once, and I phoned to give him a neighbor's phone number that I had with me, and when he didn't pick up the phone, I freaked out.  I thought an assailant had decided to crawl through the broken glass and do something to David.  We don't keep guns around, so defenses would have to be thought up creatively, and quickly.  I phoned a member of our congregation and blurted out what had happened and what I feared.  "Please go check on him..."  I told my mother that I didn't want to go home alone, so I wanted her to return to our home with me and Michael.  She said she was willing but would need to leave out some food for her cats first.  As I was driving to her place, David phoned me.  I was greatly relieved.  He explained why he hadn't picked up my call, and I told my mother that I'd be OK to go home without her with me.  I still wished I could sprout wings and be home with David in a moment.  But it would take hours to get home.  I told him that someone from our congregation was coming over, and he said the police were on their way too, as was the maintenance supervisor.  I felt so bad that she had to come all the way out, but we had nothing to cover the gaping hole.  Later, David would tell me that some of the shards of glass were about 15 inches long.  We both did a lot of mental gymnastics about all the what if's...

What if David had gone into work for the day after all?  I would have been trying to get down to his office on time to pick him up (very hard to make it there on time, when starting my drive from over 2 hours away).  The window would have been broken before any humans were home for the day, and the cat, totally freaked out, would have probably attempted to get out through the broken window.  If he had made it out unscathed by the broken glass (it was all over Michael's bedroom), he would have probably been run over by a speeding car on the highway, yards away from our building.

What if the person I had offered the furniture to had decided to take it, and Michael and I had not needed to go to PA?  Michael would have most likely been sitting at his desk in his bedroom, even at the time of last night's incident.  He would have been definitely covered with long shards of glass, and might have been killed.  (The windows are double pane, and both were shattered.)

What if any of us had been in that room at the time?  Even the cat.  No one would have come out of it without injury at the least.  But no one was.  Last night, I was glad to have my mother with me in the car when I got the news.  While she definitely prayed, when we realized that David was safe, and the cat was too, and we would get something to cover that gaping hole for the overnight, we knew we were all OK.  Shaken, but OK.  God had orchestrated our protection, one by one.  He knew that this would happen, but He was going to keep us safe through it.  I'm not saying He caused it.  He gives mankind freedom of choosing right or wrong.  Someone chose to do the wrong thing.  But God protected us.

I stayed up till about 4 AM doing the quiet kind of cleaning... wetting and wringing out paper towels, wiping down everything.  There was a lot of glass.  BTW, David and the friend from our congregation, and his son, began picking up the broken glass, wearing heavy gloves.  They filled 2 trash cans.  The maintenance supervisor, replaced the window temporarily and did a lot of vacuuming before leaving for home again.  But even by the time I got there, I could easily seen splinters of glass everywhere.  When I couldn't see anymore, I gingerly went to bed.  (I was still shaken, and worried.)  Five hours later, I was awake and started vacuuming.  I cleaned for another 6 or 7 hours before I called it done.  (I still have 2 large bins of plastic toys that I need to rinse off under running water.  Michael has probably 200-300 Fisher-Price Little People and small accessories that were right below the window that was broken.  That will take a while.)

By mid-afternoon, it was good enough for me to walk barefoot over his carpet, and to lean my arms down onto his desktop, that is right beside another window.  I was OK sitting on a chair that had earlier been covered with glass splinters.  I let Michael and the cat go into the room again.  This was during daylight hours.  When the sun went down, I began to worry again.  I was edgy when Michael wanted to sit in there, at his desk and look out the window.  I wish the guy had been found already.  It is irksome to me that I feel this way.  I know we were all safe last night, so why am I so worried now?

1 Paid their dues.

Posted by Jill:

Oh, Gayle, what a terrible incident! And all that clean-up :(. I heard the major gist of this, but not the details. I'm so glad none of you were harmed, and that Chubby didn't escape. God is good.

I can understand your anxiety after such a thing. Are you feeling better now?
Monday, October 23rd 2006 @ 10:49 PM

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